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Pagan Every Day

Pagan_Every_Day When my phone rang one day early in 2004, it was an acquisitions editor at RedWheel/Weiser. "We like the way you write," she said to me. "Would you write a book for us?" "Sure thing," I replied. "What would you like me to write?" "We want a daily calendar book," she said. "Call it 365 Pagan. And put lots of goddesses in it."

So I signed the contract and wrote the book. To meet their deadline, for six months I wrote every morning (which means I wrote thirty or thirty-one daily pages every two weeks), edited (so I could still pay the rent) every afternoon, and did research every evening.

What I found out when I sent them the completed manuscript, however, was that they'd wanted a frothy little gift book. What I'd sent them was a real book, with real scholarship, real history, real writing. It was too long. But when you're writing a calendar book, you can't just lop sixty pages off the end; you have to trim every single day. They wanted 300 words per page, max. I edited each page down to 301 words.

Pagan Every Day: Finding the Extraordinary in Our Ordinary Lives

Here's part of the review from Publishers Weekly. I'm pleased by it and hope you'll be intrigued enough to buy the book.

Ardinger's latest contribution to pagan literature is a short-essay book of days jammed with facts about goddesses and saints, alongside an assortment of random pop culture references and personal musings. The author of several books including Finding New Goddesses, Ardinger is a regular encyclopedia of knowledge not only about paganism but more broadly about significant women figures and goddesses in history (think Julian of Norwich, Mother Teresa, and Isis, all of whom make appearances among the 365 days). … Chocolate lovers will surely delight to learn the story behind Lady Godiva (July 10) and those uninitiated into the history of Sophia (December 16) will be happy to learn of her illustrious past.

One thing I discovered in writing Pagan Every Day was that if you've studied enough metaphysics, then you can find a nice metaphysical meaning in nearly anything. As I did for Barbie, Miss Piggy (the Goddess of Everything), and Dirty Dancing. Following are four new days from the book (one for each season).

February 19: Sun Enters Pisces

My friend Lilith, the astrologer, tells me that people whose sun sign is Pisces are overwhelmed by feelings. They’re the folks who make mountains out of molehills. Feelings, she says, “are great, sprawling, nebulous, messy, and almost uncontrollable creatures.” When you let your feelings take over, any scenario is possible. When we let our feelings run our lives, things can become way too interesting. What are we in addition to our feelings?

Although it was somehow decided in the 20th century that people are all basically alike (Freud said we were all driven by sex; Adler, by power; Sullivan, by social solidarity; the existentialists, by a seeking after the true self), that’s a false democracy. The evidence for variety is strong and goes back at least to the Greeks. Hippocrates described the four temperaments (sanguine, choleric, phlegmatic, and melancholic), the “four humours” were well known in the Renaissance, and Jung’s description of four “function types” is well known.

Thirty years ago, building on the work of Jung and others, David Keirsey and Marilyn Bates created sixteen temperament types. More recently, Dawna Markova characterized people as auditory, visual, or kinesthetic. These typologies may not be perfect, but they’re worth considering. Reader, find copies of books by these authors and take their tests. Find out how you’re classified and see if it agrees with your own idea of yourself. If you find any surprises, see if you can understand why you’re not quite who you think you are.

The Pisces fish swim up and down. What are your ups and downs? Where are your head and your heart? Is there balance in your life? We may be idealistic pagans, but we also have to work and live in the world as it is: let’s aim for equilibrium in every part of our lives.

May 3: Tending Our Gardens

Is there a pagan among us who does not have a garden? My garden consists of plants in pots, some lined up on crates and tables outside my windows along the building’s common patio, some hanging in wrought-iron holders up the stairs to the second story. It gets chilly enough here that some of my plants die back in the winter, but most survive all year. Because the front of the building faces west, in the summer I have to move plants into shade and water them frequently. Because it’s a potted garden, I need to be tending it every day so the plants don’t die.

Reader, how do you tend your garden? If you live where it gets cold, what kind of gardening do you do in the winter? Do you get out the seed catalogs and plant books and study them and make lists? When do you begin your spring dreaming and planting? Are you fortunate enough to have a yard and a real garden? I’ve heard that women prefer flowers, whereas men generally grow edibles.

We also plant metaphorical gardens. Maybe they should be called karmic gardens. The word “broadcast” comes from the way farmers once sowed seed. They’d take a handful out of the bag over their shoulder and fling it out across the ground to fall where it might or be carried away by the wind. Let’s think about the seeds we’re broadcasting. Some of our seeds fall close to home, but many fly across the Net and the Web and end up who knows where. That makes for very big gardens, And some unexpected blooms. You know what they say—what goes around comes back around. As you sow, so shall you reap.

July 10: Lady Godiva’s Ride

In 1040, it is said, Leonfric, earl of Mercia and lord of Coventry, laid such onerous taxes on the people that they were starving. When Lady Godiva, his wife, begged him to be merciful, he challenged her. If she would ride naked through the town, he would rescind the taxes. Godiva ordered that all windows be covered at noon and that all townspeople stay indoors. She mounted her white stallion and rode through the town, her long hair as her only garment. Only one man dared to look at her; his name has come down to us as Peeping Tom. He was struck blind, as all who spy upon women should be.

Lady Godiva, whose story comes from the Flores Historiarum (ca. 1236), was not just any medieval English noblewoman. This folktale is about a goddess, possibly Epona, and the purpose of her ride is bestow blessings upon the people, their houses and work, their fields and crops. She is goddess of the abundance of summer, a symbol of beauty to be preserved in a darkening world.

Perhaps Godiva, after whom beautiful chocolate is named, is also goddess of the beauty of summer. Hers is more than human beauty; perhaps this gentle lady embodies the beauty of the earth. In the summertime our planet is at her most fruitful. Flowers are at full bloom and fruits and vegetables are pulling ripening sunshine into their flesh. Under the blessings of Our Mother Sun, animals born with the spring are growing up and learning whatever animals learn. In midsummer, insects are busy and birds and fish are prospering. Beauty is walking upon the earth. She is riding among us. Unlike Tom, we have permission to gaze upon her and worship her, the eyes of our imagination will see her glory until midsummer comes again.

October 12: Fortuna Redux

Fortuna Redux was the Roman goddess of successful journeys and safe returns. I’m sure she has been invoked, if only unconsciously, by every explorer who ever set foot on unknown land. Even if we don’t plan to return, it’s good to know there’s still a home back there and a goddess keeping an eye on us whether we’re outward bound or on a return trajectory.

Augustus erected an altar to Fortuna Redux after he returned from a long journey through Asia, and her temple was erected by the emperor Domitian, who was forever doing battle to keep the empire together and himself on the throne. There are also numerous coins that show the goddess sitting on her throne. 

If we seek good fortune in the journeys of our lives, I’m hard pressed to think of better advice than we get from Sachel Paige (1906–1982), said to be the best pitcher in the Negro Baseball League: Avoid fried meats which angry up the blood. … Keep the juices flowing by jangling around gently as you move. Go very light on the vices, such as carrying on in society. The social ramble ain’t restful. Avoid running at all times. Don’t look back. Something might be gaining on you.

In 1948, Paige was hired by the Cleveland Indians, who won the pennant thanks to his fast ball. He also played for St. Louis and Kansas City and was elected to the Baseball Hall of Fame in 1971. Crones and sages will love his comment on getting older. “Age is a question of mind over matter,” he said. “If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter.”

Reader, are you inward bound or outward bound? Are you jangling gently as you’re moving? Have you looked back lately? Is anything gaining on you? Call on Fortuna Redux!

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